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Labor Tips for First Time Moms

&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading">Thinking about labor can be exciting and scary at the same time&excl; You may feel like you have no clue what to expect and that can be the scariest part&period; Here are some labor tips for first time moms&period; <&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"aligncenter size-large is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2020&sol;10&sol;Copy-of-Copy-of-15-Big-and-Bold-Pinterest-Pin-Templates-84-683x1024&period;png" class&equals;"wp-image-8202" width&equals;"342" height&equals;"512"&sol;><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h6 class&equals;"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading">&ast;Disclaimer&colon; links may be affiliate meaning I may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you&ast;<&sol;h6>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed at all the advice out there&quest; Other moms telling you their labor horror stories and all the scary things that happened to them&period; Labor tips for first time moms shouldn&&num;8217&semi;t be scary&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Yes&comma; every birth story is different&period; I had completely different experiences with each of my girls&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px 0 0px 0&semi;text-align&colon;center&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">But the advice I got with my first sort of terrified me for my labor which gave me some anxiety and stress surrounding the idea of labor&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">With my second&comma; I knew what to expect and what was going to happen so I was more relaxed and ended up having a much faster and easier labor the second time around&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Without going on further&comma; here are my labor tips for first time moms&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Take a Class<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Whether offered by your hospital or from a separate event nearby&comma; I highly suggest taking a class so you have an idea of what to prepare for in the medical sense&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">They will give you and your partner tips on how to help you labor naturally too if you chose to do so&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">They gave my husband tips on where to put pressure on my hips and back which helped so much in that last trimester when my hips were painful&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Tour the Hospital <&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">If you are able to I would suggest touring the hospital you are going to give birth in&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Some hospitals have maternity tours which allows expectant mothers &lpar;and fathers&rpar; to tour the maternity wing and lets you see one of the delivery rooms&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This helped me a ton with my anxiety and picturing the birth I wanted because I was able to actually picture the room&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"aligncenter size-large is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2020&sol;10&sol;Copy-of-Untitled-93&period;png" class&equals;"wp-image-8199" width&equals;"382" height&equals;"212"&sol;><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Envision Your Birth<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Most first time moms do this naturally anyways&period; You envision the whole labor process and how you think it might go&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Picturing this will be easier if you did the previous step but even if not&comma; you can picture yourself breathing&comma; pushing&comma; staying calm etc&period; Imagining the birth process could help you remain calm during the actual event&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Staying Calm<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Practice breathing techniques and possibly even taking up meditation during pregnancy might help you remain calm leading up the labor&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Practicing breathing will also help during labor to relax your muscles and make delivery &lpar;hopefully&rpar; less painful and stressful&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Stay Active <&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Staying active for as long as possible leading up to labor will help your flexibility and might lessen the chances of any tearing&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Walking will help reduce the weight gain towards the end too and keep your body agile and reduce swelling from just sitting around&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This is obviously only if your doctor okays walking&period; Some people end up on bed rest towards the end if there are any issues and you should listen to your doctor&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Stretching is also another way to stay active&period; Keeping those muscles loose and flexible will help during the delivery process as well&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Kegel exercises are helpful to your pelvic floor which will undergo some major stress as labor happens&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"aligncenter size-large is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2020&sol;10&sol;Copy-of-Untitled-91&period;png" class&equals;"wp-image-8200" width&equals;"409" height&equals;"227"&sol;><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Understand the Process<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Watching other videos on YouTube about birthing experiences can give you an idea of what might happen&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">But don&&num;8217&semi;t let it freak you out because every birthing experience is different&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">I watched a few easy birthing experiences and it helped me get a different perspective especially on the after-birth and healing part&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Calming Environment<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">If possible&comma; limit the number of people you have in your room&period; Only allow people who will help keep you calm and support you during labor&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Most hospitals will kick everyone else out of the room except your birthing team anyways during labor&comma; but if someone is refusing to leave&comma; let the hospital staff be the heavy and tell them to get out&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">You want a calm environment for you and baby during labor&period; If possible&comma; ask your labor and delivery nurses and doctor if you could lower the lights during labor to help with creating a calming environment&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">You could even have soft and calming music playing if that helps you remain calm and give yourself a relaxing environment to keep you calm during labor&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Take Photos and&sol;or Video<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Most hospitals will allow you to record a video from the waist up to capture those first moments of birth and even labor&comma; as long as you don&&num;8217&semi;t show the actual process&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Ask ahead of time if you can record or photograph the process&period; Most hospitals will allow it&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This way you can always look back and remember that experience&period; You think you will be able to remember every detail&comma; but I&&num;8217&semi;m telling you&comma; you wont&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">You will remember seeing your baby for the first time&comma; sure&comma; but you won&&num;8217&semi;t remember the whole process chances are&period; So ask if you can record it or at the very least take photos&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Enjoy the Moment<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This may sound silly and not possible but try and just enjoy the moment and be present in the moment&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Every experience is different and you won&&num;8217&semi;t want to miss out on this incredible experience&period; So put social media away and <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;a-minimalist-hospital-bag&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener"><span class&equals;"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color">enjoy the birth<&sol;span><&sol;a> of your little miracle&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<div class&equals;"wp-block-image"><figure class&equals;"aligncenter size-large is-resized"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2020&sol;10&sol;Copy-of-Untitled-92&period;png" class&equals;"wp-image-8201" width&equals;"443" height&equals;"246"&sol;><&sol;figure><&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Take the Epidural<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This is a completely personal choice and I&&num;8217&semi;m not here to sway you one way or the other&period; It is a personal decision and one only you should make&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">I will say&comma; having my first birthing experience have the epidural not completely work all the way and I felt all the back labor and pain&comma; I was not able to fully enjoy the experience like I did with my second birth&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">My second birth the epidural worked fully and I was able to have a smoother and more relaxing experience&period; I was able to relax&comma; rest and push without feeling stressed and in pain and was able to push her out quicker because my body was relaxed&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">But once again&comma; this is a personal choice but I usually tell everyone who asks&comma; get the epidural because it made my birthing experience so much better the second time around&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">You May Tear<&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">My labor with my first born I tore&period; I had to get stitches so just be prepared that this is a possibility&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">If you had the epidural then you won&&num;8217&semi;t feel this and chances are even if you don&&num;8217&semi;t have it&comma; you would be in such blissful heaven that you won&&num;8217&semi;t even notice&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">You are holding your baby and basking in the glory that you just brought into this world so chances are if they need to stitch you up&comma; you won&&num;8217&semi;t feel it anyways&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">The <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;2017-12-25-6-must-haves-after-giving-birth-for-the-lady-bits&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener"><span class&equals;"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color">after-birth healing process<&sol;span><&sol;a> however will be a bit more painful&period; For more on what you will need after birth&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;2017-12-25-6-must-haves-after-giving-birth-for-the-lady-bits&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener"><span class&equals;"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color">read here<&sol;span><&sol;a>&period; This <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;amazon&period;com&sol;gp&sol;product&sol;B07TFBK9Y3&sol;ref&equals;as&lowbar;li&lowbar;tl&quest;ie&equals;UTF8&amp&semi;camp&equals;1789&amp&semi;creative&equals;9325&amp&semi;creativeASIN&equals;B07TFBK9Y3&amp&semi;linkCode&equals;as2&amp&semi;tag&equals;mamabearrevie-20&amp&semi;linkId&equals;f069609078626d5c65be984e78db1026" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"sponsored noreferrer noopener"><span class&equals;"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color">FridaMom kit<&sol;span><&sol;a> will save your mom parts&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<h2 class&equals;"wp-block-heading">Bring Carseat to Hospital <&sol;h2>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This is not necessarily labor tip related&comma; but make sure and bring your car seat to the hospital because they will not let you leave without proof of a carseat for your new baby&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">This is also helpful because they can also check if you are securely and properly strapping your baby into the seat&period; This is EXTREMELY important&excl; If you aren&&num;8217&semi;t sure how to properly do it&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;mamabearreviews&period;com&sol;do-you-have-your-infant-car-seat-chest-clip-placement-placed-correctly&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noreferrer noopener"><span class&equals;"has-inline-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-color">read here<&sol;span><&sol;a>&comma; or have your nurse check&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"has-medium-font-size">Hopefully these tips have helped relieve some stress and gave some labor tips for first time moms out there to be able to enjoy and prepare for your experience&period; 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Amelia Zamora

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