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Rules to a Happy Marriage After Kids

Amelia Zamora

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  • Kids definitely bring changes, and it's good when some people have a support system in place like parents or friends. It's really hard to raise children on your own, and more mentally than physically. Happy to hear the hardest time is over and you found motivation to love your husband again! :)

    • Thank you for taking the time to read my story! :) support is definitely needed in this parenting journey!

  • Ameila! I just want to say THANK YOU for sharing this. It's really difficult to truly speak about this specific topic. At least I know it has been for me. You and I have A LOT in common. My husband and I have been together 10 years, married 6. We have 4 kids, we share 3 together. But, bottom line is I've had to learn to "re-love" my husband too. We have to intentionally connect and not resent each other for the fact that 4 kids are in between us and the time we should have for each other. I commend you and your husband for making the effort, to keep a home together, and raise children in a two parent home. It's difficult. Today's generation, well, is simply ready to divorce when things get rough like this. Hats off to you and your beautiful family!

    • First off THANK you so much for taking the time to read my story! I’m so glad you could connect and I hope I helped you not feel alone in this tough journey of parenthood! And kuddos to you and your husband for caring for 4 kids! That’s a lot and hats off to you both! It’s hard no doubt but we got this! Us mamas gotta stick together and share some more real stories :)

  • I love this post and I can relate to you in so many ways! Having kids changes everything, but it’s so important to not forget about who you were before kids. I’m glad you and your husband are back to being the couple that you were! Thanks for sharing. ❤️

  • This... Hits home in so many ways. Although I am not married, my boyfriend and I have 13 month old twins and I am a stay at home mom. He actually sent this to me and told me to read it...I resented him for the longest time because he got to leave for work and talk to people and have an adult life, I cried everyday, I snapped, I was tired, I was a bug ball of emotions. We just recently within the last 3 months have figured out what's going on and trying to work on communication and ''us time".

    • I’m so glad that you guys are working on “you time”. It truly is key!!! Hope this helped in knowing you are so NOT alone!!!

  • Ooooooh Amelia! I feel like I was reading MY story! I have been there. Tim and I have been there. Parenthood is hard damn work and so is being married. It's amazing how much as a society we don't talk about it. Good on you for opening it up.

    • Aw thanks Marie for taking the time to read it and comment! It means a lot! I’m glad a few people can relate and I agree society likes to hide certain aspects of marriage and parenthood but I’m here to bring some topics to light :) lol

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